Extraversion and Introversion
An extravert and introvert may have some issues with one wanting the other to open up more, and one wanting the other wanting the other to give them some time alone. However, they can also be good to balance each other out, allowing the extravert to feel more comfortable introspecting, and the introvert has someone to encourage them to socialize and try new things more often.
The ENFJ Prefers extraversion to introversion. The ENFJ gets energized being around people and prefers to talk out their thoughts instead of internalizing them. They are in tune with the feelings and emotions of their environment and seek to understand it.
The INTJ prefers introversion to extraversion. The INTJ is energized by alone time and will use it to help sort out their thoughts. The INTJ seeks to understand patterns and underlying meanings behind what people say and do.
Intuition and Intuition
Two intuitives will get along well. They both see the world in abstract and possibilities, which can lead to engaging conversation. However, they may have trouble following through with day to day chores and responsibilities.
The ENFJ prefers intuition to sensing (Through Introverted Intuition). The ENFJ wants to understand the underlying meanings and connections between things. The ENFJ can form a gut feeling or intuition about the way things are going to play out.
The INTJ prefers intuition to sensing (Through Introverted Intuition). The INTJ wants to understand the underlying meanings and connections between things. The INTJ can form a gut feeling or intuition about the way things are going to play out.
Thinking and Feeling
A thinker and a feeler can make for an interesting dynamic. The thinker can help sort through logical issues, but may be seen as harsh to a feeler. The feeler can help the thinker understand their emotions more, but can be seen as too emotional and flighty to a thinker. However, both of these types can make for a very healthy balance.
The ENFJ prefers feeling to thinking (Using Extraverted Feeling). The ENFJ lives in the emotional and feeling world. The ENFJ is in touch with others emotions and knows how to respond to them to put others at ease.
The INTJ prefers thinking to feeling (Using Extraverted Thinking). The INTJ wants the world to be logical and orderly. The INTJ wants conclusive plans of action and concrete understand of the way things works. This universal acceptance of logic is used to help the INTJ form their worldview.
Judging and Judging
Two judgers will want their worlds to be ordered and planned out. They would like to know what they are doing beforehand. These judgers will both appreciate each others structure and valuing being on time. However, they can both become stubborn and may clash with each other over which direction to take.
The ENFJ prefers judging to perceiving. The ENFJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The ENFJ wants to bring structure, order, and harmony to their environment.