Extraversion and Introversion
An extravert and introvert may have some issues with one wanting the other to open up more, and one wanting the other wanting the other to give them some time alone. However, they can also be good to balance each other out, allowing the extravert to feel more comfortable introspecting, and the introvert has someone to encourage them to socialize and try new things more often.
The ISFJ prefers introversion to extraversion. The ISFJ is energized by their alone time and uses it to sort things out. The ISFJ wants things to make sense and will use the past as a predictor of future events.
The ESTP prefers extraversion to introversion. The ESTP gets energized by people and wants to take in the world through their five senses to better experience it.
Sensing and Sensing
Two sensors will get along well. They both live in the real and the concrete. They are good at living in the present, but they may have some troubles foreseeing potential problems down the line.
The ISFJ prefers sensing to intuition (Using Introverted Sensing). The ISFJ takes in the world in a concrete/matter of fact manner. The ISFJ remembers facts, places, and uses past events to predict future outcomes
The ESTP prefers sensing to intuition (Using Extraverted Sensing). The ESTP wants to make sense of the world and uses their five senses of touch, feel, see, taste, and smell to better understand the present moment.
Thinking and Feeling
A thinker and a feeler can make for an interesting dynamic. The thinker can help sort through logical issues, but may be seen as harsh to a feeler. The feeler can help the thinker understand their emotions more, but can be seen as too emotional and flighty to a thinker. However, both of these types can make for a very healthy balance.
The ISFJ prefers feeling to thinking (Using Extraverted Feeling). The ISFJ lives in the emotional and feeling world. The ISFJ is in touch with others emotions and knows how to respond to them to put others at ease.
The ESTP prefers thinking preference to feeling preference (Using Introverted Thinking). The ESTP prefers to see the world using logic, systems, and ethical fairness. The ESTP wants things to make sense logically, and wants to sort things out.
Judging and Perceiving
A judger and a perceiver can surprisingly get along pretty well. The judger prefers to make plans, and the perceiver has little problem with deferring. Problems can arise when the judger becomes to imposing, or when the perceiver’s flexibility of schedules can be seen as an annoyance.
The ISFJ prefers judging to perceiving. The ISFJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The ISFJ wants to bring structure, order, and harmony to their environment.
The ESTP prefers the Perceiving preference to Judging. The ESTP prefers to leave time for decisions instead of coming to an immediate conclusion. The ESTP prefers new experiences and flexible possibilities to predictable moments.