The ENFJ Personality is all about being inspiring. The ENFJ wants to lead the world and the people around them into a better future and is very charismatic. They know how to find their way through the world. They understand people very well and they know how to get the best out of them. They believe everything around them can be improved, which allows them to move in a direction they believe will benefit everyone over the long term. They have a way with words, and they need to make sure that they are using them for good. The scorned ENFJ can be quite hurtful, but if they remember that others are not as quick to grasp their vision as they are, they should be able to stay humble and remain in good spirits. The ENFJ is great at reading people. It comes natural to them, and sometimes they might even surprise themselves with how accurate they can be. The strength of the ENFJ is that they come from a sincere place of caring about others and humanity as a whole. They do not intend to be manipulative, and this purity of heart allows others to realize how helpful they can be.
Enneagram Type 8 (8w7 8w9)
The Enneagram Type 8 is all about being assertive. The Enneagram Type Eight wants to enjoy the world and understand how to become the best they can be in order to provide for themselves and others. They could come across as a bit too domineering to some, but they will likely learn how to balance this trait. They prefer to be in control of their environment, and will work hard to make that a reality. Some people may be resistant to their ways, but the 8 usually has a way to manage themselves and get results. The 8 is driven to make an impact and be important in their world. If they Enneagram 8 does not feel in control, it is a very unpleasant experience for them. They can become a bit fearful and afraid of what happens to them when they aren’t the ones steering the ship, so to speak. When they develop their strengths and trust the world more, they can see themselves becoming much more caring and share their resources with others around them. They are driven to be independent and want to make their own way in the world. However, they need to be able to manage when this is not possible. They are sometimes scared of vulnerability, but over time, they will understand that being open and expressive of their emotions leads to a much more rich and fulfilling life.