The ENFJ Personality is all about being inspiring. The ENFJ wants to lead the world and the people around them into a better future and is very charismatic. They know how to find their way through the world. They understand people very well and they know how to get the best out of them. They believe everything around them can be improved, which allows them to move in a direction they believe will benefit everyone over the long term. They have a way with words, and they need to make sure that they are using them for good. The scorned ENFJ can be quite hurtful, but if they remember that others are not as quick to grasp their vision as they are, they should be able to stay humble and remain in good spirits. The ENFJ is great at reading people. It comes natural to them, and sometimes they might even surprise themselves with how accurate they can be. The strength of the ENFJ is that they come from a sincere place of caring about others and humanity as a whole. They do not intend to be manipulative, and this purity of heart allows others to realize how helpful they can be.
Enneagram Type 2 (2w1 2w3)
The Enneagram Type 2 is all about being a helper. The Enneagram Type Two wants to be needed and is great at fulfilling a role that makes them of service to the people around them. They can be driven to help others in order to be close to people. They may struggle a bit with possessiveness, but ideally they are seen as having unconditional love for others. The 2 is good at being an ideal parent. They are able to understand, listen, and encourage others to reach their full potential. They are compassionate and look for ways to help others grow. They do need to watch out for becoming too prideful and too involved in the lives of others. Autonomy is key. They need to learn how to give without expectations, and have healthy boundaries with the ones they are trying to help. The 2 has a drive where they feel they need to put others first and ahead of themselves. However, this can cause resentment and bitterness. When they are at their best, they are supportive and emotionally understanding of others, and can be just the nurturing voice that someone may need in their life. Being fully present during their acts of service can be highly rewarding for the Enneagram 2.