What Each Myers-Briggs Type is Like In Bed
Let’s talk about sex, baby! Whether openly talked about or discretely whispered about, sex is a topic crossing most people’s lips (or minds) on a constant basis. A healthy sex life is important for most relationships, and here is how we think you perceive sex according to your personality type.
INFJ- The Cautious Lover
Sex has to mean something to you, or else it is pretty miserable. You want to completely trust the person you make love with, that being said you don’t trust easily. You take time to warm up to people, and are not the most physically open person in the world. Although you are hesitant at first, when you find the right person it is electric. You don’t believe in setting boundaries in the bedroom with someone you love, and are willing to try new things. Sex is not the most important thing to you, but you find you are rather amazing at it with the right person. You are capable of taking sex to a whole new level of spirituality.
ENFJ- The Giving Lover
You have a very high sex drive, but only within the confines of a committed relationship. You aim to please the person you are with, and are an enthusiastic lover. You will basically never say no to your partner, and enjoy making them happy. It turns you on even more to see them pleased, which makes the experience even better for you. As long as you feel comfortable with someone the sex is amazing. If you feel like your partner isn’t trustworthy or you don’t feel valued, your sex drive deteriorates.
INFP- The Passionate Lover
For you love-making is about just that, LOVE. Without a deep bond and strong emotional connection, you see little point in sex itself. Sex being just a physical act, is something you do not desire. Casual sex is definitely not for you, and would make you very internally unhappy. That being said, sex is actually very important to you, within the confines of a deeper connection. You see sex as a physical manifestation of a powerful emotional connection with someone. It is your opportunity to connect intimately with your partner. You are very willing and eager to try new things in the bedroom, as long as there is an emotional connection.
ENFP- The Fervent Lover
You require an emotional connection to be able to be fully intimate with someone. Once you have established a connection, you are a very enthusiastic and passionate lover. You have a very high sex drive and see it as an opportunity to express yourself fully to someone. You enjoy being able to explore new sides of yourself and don’t like to set restrictions in the bedroom. You probably have heard you were the best your lovers ever had, and it doesn’t come as a surprise to us. Your creativity and passion in your daily life, translates very well into the bedroom.
INTJ- The Accomplished Lover
When it comes to sex you see it as another opportunity to be excellent at something. Although you can be in your own head when it comes to your daily life, sex is entirely different. This is your opportunity to stop overthinking and be in the moment. You are sometimes aggressive and very capable of taking charge in the bedroom. You are capable of having a very high sex drive in the right circumstances, but it all depends on the person and situation. You are focused on making sure both you and your partner are satisfied in the bedroom. You aren’t necessarily easy to please, but you are more than willing to take action to rectify that.
ENTJ- The Magnetic Lover
Your natural aggression is something that translates very well into the bedroom. You are willing to take charge, and know how to keep a healthy balance. You have a very creative and intuitive way of making sex interesting for both you and your partner. You don’t want things to become too boring, but with you that is unlikely to ever happen. You may have a tendency to schedule sexual encounters, but make up for it in your ability to keep things fresh. You take your partner on a vigorous and imaginative love-making journey, which they will never forget.
INTP- The Consuming Lover
Although you are not the most emotionally expressive person, you feel much more satisfied when there is an emotional connection during sex. You’ve probably experienced casual sex (because you are never averse to exploring new things) and found that it was seriously lacking. You don’t necessarily open up easily and tend to only enjoy sex fully with someone you feel completely comfortable with. Once you do find someone you are relaxed with, sex is a great opportunity to get outside of your own head. You are very keen on experimentation, and enjoy trying new things in the bedroom. You have the perfect combination of wanting to be satisfied, but of also wanting your partner to be satisfied.
ENTP- The Experimental Lover
You take sex very seriously, and do not just lust after someone’s physical presence. You feel deeply attracted to people whose minds you can respect and admire, and who excite you deeply. Once you reach a level of connection with someone, sex is an intense and wild ride. You dislike the idea of boundaries, and want to keep the passion alive. You dislike selfish lovers, and want someone who will be just as giving to you, as you are to them. If you find someone who is willing to give back, you are eager to please them in phenomenal ways. You probably have a bit of a kinky side…okay you have a VERY kinky side. Alright fine, your entire being is kinky.
ISTJ- The Organized Lover
Sex to you is a natural part of any good relationship, and is vital in keeping things happy. You enjoy sex, just like anyone else- but you prefer when things are predictable and scheduled. You dislike too many surprises in the bedroom, and enjoy following what you know best. You are sure to please your partner and know how to perform well, as long as you can maintain some level of control. You like the idea of someone else being able to take charge and you might even be able to find the right ENFP to bring you out of your shell.
ESTJ- The Proud Lover
Your natural aggressiveness and eagerness towards life, translates directly into the bedroom. You have a very take charge attitude and see sex as an opportunity to be the best at yet another thing. When they are young most ESTJs will explore ranking in the sexual conquests, but as they mature find casual sex meaningless. You are instantly turned on if you realize the other person is attracted to you. You thrive on knowing you are doing a good job in the bedroom, and want to be as impressive as possible. Bragging rights are definitely a plus…even if you are just bragging to your partner.
ISFJ- The Generous Lover
To you sex is the perfect opportunity to express your love for someone else. You see it as a chance to please your partner in every way possible, and you will try your hardest to do so. You want them to fully understand that sex is important to you, and that making them happy means everything. You are willing to experiment (although you have some boundaries) for your partner, if that is what will please them. You enjoy feeling a connection to your loved one, and see sex as a prime opportunity for that.
ESFJ- The Vivacious Lover
To you sex is only truly good, when you are deeply in love. If you don’t truly care for someone, sex can almost feel like a chore. When you are comfortable with your partner, sex with you is very passionate and animated. Above all else you want to make sure that your partner is happy and fully satisfied. If you feel like your partner is not enjoying themselves, it may make you shut down and you will no longer enjoy the experience yourself. To you sex is a chance to connect with your lover and feel closer to them. You may have a hard time receiving pleasure from your loved one, but the closer you feel the more you are willing to let go.
ISTP- The Available Lover
You have a relatively high sex drive, and are able to see sex in just the physical terms. You don’t scoff at the idea of sex without a deep connection, but you probably agree that it adds another element to the sexual experience. You view sex in the highly chemical sense, and are drawn to people you are physically attracted to. You are often very visually stimulated, and enjoy what is aesthetically pleasing. You usually see sexual encounters as an outlet, and do not require an emotional connection.
ESTP- The Exciting Lover
You probably have an extremely high sex drive, and find it very hard to be satisfied completely. You enjoy the physical aspect of sex, and are very willing to explore new things. You are eager and athletic during sex, more than willing to put forth a lot of the work. You don’t always need an emotional connection to experience good sex, but you are willing to explore that aspect of it as well. You can be very giving towards your lover, but are also very greedy as well.
ISFP- The Expressive Lover
You see the physical act of sex as a prime opportunity to express your feelings for someone. To you it is one of the best ways to show someone that you truly care for them. You are capable of separating sex from love, but see no value in those sorts of shallow experiences. You look for comfort and trust within a relationship, and that translates well into your sex life. You are eager to make your partner feel loved and appreciated in the bedroom, which they definitely appreciate.
ESFP- The Nimble Lover
You are extremely observant and in the moment as a sexual partner. You are capable of experiencing sex without love, and you don’t generally feel remorse afterwards. Although you are capable of separating sex and love, you do enjoy feeling deeply connected to your partner. When you care about someone you can be extremely giving and enthusiastic. You are an athletic and exciting partner in the bedroom.