Extraversion and Extraversion
Two extraverts will both get energized by being around people. This can allow them both to go out often together. Too much extraversion between people can lead to a lack of downtime and reflection, however.
The ESFJ Prefers extraversion to introversion. The ESFJ gets energized being around people and prefers to talk out their thoughts instead of internalizing them. They are in tune with the feelings and emotions of their environment and seek to understand it.
The ESFP prefers extraversion to introversion. The ESFP gets energized by people and wants to take in the world through their five senses to better experience it.
Sensing and Sensing
Two sensors will get along well. They both live in the real and the concrete. They are good at living in the present, but they may have some troubles foreseeing potential problems down the line.
The ESFJ prefers sensing to intuition (Using Introverted Sensing). The ESFJ takes in the world in a concrete/matter of fact manner. The ESFJ remembers facts, places, and uses past events to predict future outcomes.
The ESFP prefers sensing to intuition (Using Extraverted Sensing). The ESFP wants to make sense of the world and uses their five senses of touch, feel, see, taste, and smell to better understand the present moment.
Feeling and Feeling
Two feeling types can make for a very warm and inviting relationship. Both types are in tune with the feelings of others and can cater to their needs. However, they may have problems with becoming overwhelmed with finances or being more objective in certain situations.
The ESFJ prefers feeling to thinking (Using Extraverted Feeling). The ESFJ lives in the emotional and feeling world. The ESFJ is in touch with others emotions and knows how to respond to them to put others at ease.
The ESFP prefers feeling to thinking (Using Introverted Feeling). The ESFP has a rich inner world of morals, feelings, and ideals that it seeks to better understand. The ESFP tends to use this inner guidance as a force to express themselves in the world.
Judging and Perceiving
A judger and a perceiver can surprisingly get along pretty well. The judger prefers to make plans, and the perceiver has little problem with deferring. Problems can arise when the judger becomes to imposing, or when the perceiver’s flexibility of schedules can be seen as an annoyance.
The ESFJ prefers judging to perceiving. The ESFJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The ESFJ wants to bring structure, order, and harmony to their environment.
The ESFP prefers the Perceiving preference to Judging. The ESFP prefers to leave time for decisions instead of coming to an immediate conclusion. The ESFP prefers new experiences and flexible possibilities to predictable moments.