Extraversion and Introversion
An extravert and introvert may have some issues with one wanting the other to open up more, and one wanting the other wanting the other to give them some time alone. However, they can also be good to balance each other out, allowing the extravert to feel more comfortable introspecting, and the introvert has someone to encourage them to socialize and try new things more often.
The ESFJ Prefers extraversion to introversion. The ESFJ gets energized being around people and prefers to talk out their thoughts instead of internalizing them. They are in tune with the feelings and emotions of their environment and seek to understand it.
The ISFP prefers introversion to extraversion. The ISFP gets energized and recharged being alone. The ISFP uses this time to better understand themselves and their place in the world.
Sensing and Sensing
Two sensors will get along well. They both live in the real and the concrete. They are good at living in the present, but they may have some troubles foreseeing potential problems down the line.
The ESFJ prefers sensing to intuition (Using Introverted Sensing). The ESFJ takes in the world in a concrete/matter of fact manner. The ESFJ remembers facts, places, and uses past events to predict future outcomes.
The ISFP prefers sensing to intuition (Using Extraverted Sensing). The ISFP wants to make sense of the world and uses their five senses of touch, feel, see, taste, and smell to better understand the present moment.
Feeling and Feeling
Two feeling types can make for a very warm and inviting relationship. Both types are in tune with the feelings of others and can cater to their needs. However, they may have problems with becoming overwhelmed with finances or being more objective in certain situations.
The ESFJ prefers feeling to thinking (Using Extraverted Feeling). The ESFJ lives in the emotional and feeling world. The ESFJ is in touch with others emotions and knows how to respond to them to put others at ease.
The ISFP prefers feeling to thinking (Using Introverted Feeling). The ISFP has a rich inner world of morals, feelings, and ideals that it seeks to better understand. The ISFP tends to use this inner guidance as a force to express themselves in the world.
Judging and Perceiving
A judger and a perceiver can surprisingly get along pretty well. The judger prefers to make plans, and the perceiver has little problem with deferring. Problems can arise when the judger becomes to imposing, or when the perceiver’s flexibility of schedules can be seen as an annoyance.
The ESFJ prefers judging to perceiving. The ESFJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The ESFJ wants to bring structure, order, and harmony to their environment.
The ISFP prefers the Perceiving preference to Judging. The ISFP prefers to leave time for decisions instead of coming to an immediate conclusion. The ISFP prefers new experiences and flexible possibilities to predictable moments.