Extraversion and Introversion
An extravert and introvert may have some issues with one wanting the other to open up more, and one wanting the other wanting the other to give them some time alone. However, they can also be good to balance each other out, allowing the extravert to feel more comfortable introspecting, and the introvert has someone to encourage them to socialize and try new things more often.
The ENTJ Prefers extraversion to introversion. The ENTJ gets energized being around people and prefers to talk out their thoughts instead of internalizing them. They are in tune with the structure and order of their environment and seek to understand it.
The ISTP type prefers introversion to extraversion. The ISTP tends to be inside their heads a lot and will think through things. They have an internal logical framework of the world and they prefer to come to conclusions by themselves.
Sensing and Intuition
A sensor and an intuitive will face some challenges in conversation. The Sensor lives in the concrete world of facts and senses, while the intuitive tends to wonder more about possibilities and what is not immediately recognizable. While these two types may struggle, they may also balance each other out by being able to get things done and also foresee future issues.
The ENTJ prefers intuition to sensing (Through Introverted Intuition). The ENTJ wants to understand the underlying meanings and connections between things. The ENTJ can form a gut feeling or intuition about the way things are going to play out.
The ISTP prefers sensing to intuition (Using Extraverted Sensing). The ISTP wants to make sense of the world and uses their five senses of touch, feel, see, taste, and smell to better understand the present moment.
Thinking and Thinking
Two thinkers can make for a very informative relationship. Two thinkers can really discuss matters and learn new things. They enjoy logically understanding their environment. Problems can arise when both types neglect the emotional aspects, which can lead to bottled up emotion.
The ENTJ prefers thinking to feeling (Using Extraverted Thinking). The ENTJ wants the world to be logical and orderly. The ENTJ wants conclusive plans of action and concrete understand of the way things works. This universal acceptance of logic is used to help the ENTJ form their worldview.
The ISTP prefers thinking preference to feeling preference (UsingIntroverted Thinking). The ISTP prefers to see the world using logic, systems, and ethical fairness. The ISTP wants things to make sense logically, and wants to sort things out.
Judging and Perceiving
A judger and a perceiver can surprisingly get along pretty well. The judger prefers to make plans, and the perceiver has little problem with deferring. Problems can arise when the judger becomes to imposing, or when the perceiver’s flexibility of schedules can be seen as an annoyance.
The ENTJ prefers judging to perceiving. The ENTJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The ENTJ wants to bring structure, order, and organization to their environment.
The ISTP prefers the Perceiving preference to Judging. The ISTP prefers to leave time for decisions instead of coming to an immediate conclusion. The ISTP prefers new experiences and flexible possibilities to predictable moments.