Extraversion and Introversion
An extravert and introvert may have some issues with one wanting the other to open up more, and one wanting the other wanting the other to give them some time alone. However, they can also be good to balance each other out, allowing the extravert to feel more comfortable introspecting, and the introvert has someone to encourage them to socialize and try new things more often.
The INTP type prefers introversion to extraversion. The INTP tends to be inside their heads a lot and will think through things. They have an internal logical framework of the world and they prefer to come to conclusions by themselves.
The ESTJ Prefers extraversion to introversion. The ESTJ gets energized being around people and prefers to talk out their thoughts instead of internalizing them. They are in tune with the structure and order of their environment and seek to understand it.
Sensing and Intuition
A sensor and an intuitive will face some challenges in conversation. The Sensor lives in the concrete world of facts and senses, while the intuitive tends to wonder more about possibilities and what is not immediately recognizable. While these two types may struggle, they may also balance each other out by being able to get things done and also foresee future issues.
The INTP type prefers intuition to sensing (Using Extraverted Intuition). The INTP tends to see the world abstractly in potential possibilities and what “could be” in contrast to concrete facts, places, and things.
The ESTJ prefers sensing to intuition (Using Introverted Sensing). The ESTJ takes in the world in a concrete/matter of fact manner. The ESTJ remembers facts, places, and uses past events to predict future outcomes.
Thinking and Thinking
Two thinkers can make for a very informative relationship. Two thinkers can really discuss matters and learn new things. They enjoy logically understanding their environment. Problems can arise when both types neglect the emotional aspects, which can lead to bottled up emotion.
The INTP prefers thinking preference to feeling preference (Using Introverted Thinking). The INTP prefers to see the world using logic, systems, and ethical fairness. The INTP wants things to make sense logically, and wants to sort things out.
The ESTJ prefers thinking to feeling (Using Extraverted Thinking). The ESTJ wants the world to be logical and orderly. The ISTJ wants conclusive plans of action and concrete understand of the way things works. This universal acceptance of logic is used to help the ESTJ form their worldview.
Judging and Perceiving
A judger and a perceiver can surprisingly get along pretty well. The judger prefers to make plans, and the perceiver has little problem with deferring. Problems can arise when the judger becomes to imposing, or when the perceiver’s flexibility of schedules can be seen as an annoyance.
The INTP prefers the Perceiving preference to Judging. The INTP prefers to leave time for decisions instead of coming to an immediate conclusion. The INTP prefers new experiences and flexible possibilities to predictable moments.
The ESTJ prefers judging to perceiving. The ESTJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The ESTJ wants to bring structure, order, and organization to their environment.