Extraversion and Introversion
An extravert and introvert may have some issues with one wanting the other to open up more, and one wanting the other wanting the other to give them some time alone. However, they can also be good to balance each other out, allowing the extravert to feel more comfortable introspecting, and the introvert has someone to encourage them to socialize and try new things more often.
The INFJ prefers introversion to extraversion. The INFJ is energized by alone time and will use it to help sort out their thoughts. The INFJ seeks to understand patterns and underlying meanings behind what people say and do.
The ESFJ Prefers extraversion to introversion. The ESFJ gets energized being around people and prefers to talk out their thoughts instead of internalizing them. They are in tune with the feelings and emotions of their environment and seek to understand it.
Sensing and Intuition
A sensor and an intuitive will face some challenges in conversation. The Sensor lives in the concrete world of facts and senses, while the intuitive tends to wonder more about possibilities and what is not immediately recognizable. While these two types may struggle, they may also balance each other out by being able to get things done and also foresee future issues.
The INFJ prefers intuition to sensing (Through Introverted Intuition). The INFJ wants to understand the underlying meanings and connections between things. The INFJ can form a gut feeling or intuition about the way things are going to play out.
The ESFJ prefers sensing to intuition (Using Introverted Sensing). The ESFJ takes in the world in a concrete/matter of fact manner. The ESFJ remembers facts, places, and uses past events to predict future outcomes.
Feeling and Feeling
Two feeling types can make for a very warm and inviting relationship. Both types are in tune with the feelings of others and can cater to their needs. However, they may have problems with becoming overwhelmed with finances or being more objective in certain situations.
The INFJ prefers feeling to thinking (Using Extraverted Feeling). The INFJ lives in the emotional and feeling world. The INFJ is in touch with others emotions and knows how to respond to them to put others at ease.
The ESFJ prefers feeling to thinking (Using Extraverted Feeling). The ESFJ lives in the emotional and feeling world. The ESFJ is in touch with others emotions and knows how to respond to them to put others at ease.
Judging and Judging
Two judgers will want their worlds to be ordered and planned out. They would like to know what they are doing beforehand. These judgers will both appreciate each others structure and valuing being on time. However, they can both become stubborn and may clash with each other over which direction to take.
The INFJ prefers judging to perceiving. The INFJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The INFJ wants to bring structure, order, and harmony to their environment.
The ESFJ prefers judging to perceiving. The ESFJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The ESFJ wants to bring structure, order, and harmony to their environment.