The ENFJ Personality is all about being inspiring. The ENFJ wants to lead the world and the people around them into a better future and is very charismatic. They know how to find their way through the world. They understand people very well and they know how to get the best out of them. They believe everything around them can be improved, which allows them to move in a direction they believe will benefit everyone over the long term. They have a way with words, and they need to make sure that they are using them for good. The scorned ENFJ can be quite hurtful, but if they remember that others are not as quick to grasp their vision as they are, they should be able to stay humble and remain in good spirits. The ENFJ is great at reading people. It comes natural to them, and sometimes they might even surprise themselves with how accurate they can be. The strength of the ENFJ is that they come from a sincere place of caring about others and humanity as a whole. They do not intend to be manipulative, and this purity of heart allows others to realize how helpful they can be.
Enneagram Type 1 (1w9 1w2)
The Enneagram Type 1 is all about being an advocate. The Enneagram Type One wants to deal with what is right and what is wrong. When they are at their best, the 1 has high standards that they hold themselves to. This becomes problematic if they find themselves being too much of a perfectionist and nothing ever gets done. They believe in keeping things in order, and they are also advocates for what they believe is right. This can cause them to fight the good fight. When they are stressed, they can become rather moody. However, when they are feeling their best, they are able to let go a bit more and just enjoy the moment. The Enneagram 1 works best when they are striving to achieve their goals and believe everything is moving in the right direction. They ideally would like to be doing everything right so that they are not criticized. The 1 needs to realize that others may not see their way initially, and that change takes time. However, they need to realize that they may still be implementing change by their well spoken words and ideas, it just might take a bit of time for that to sink in.