Extraversion and Introversion
An extravert and introvert may have some issues with one wanting the other to open up more, and one wanting the other wanting the other to give them some time alone. However, they can also be good to balance each other out, allowing the extravert to feel more comfortable introspecting, and the introvert has someone to encourage them to socialize and try new things more often.
The ENFJ Prefers extraversion to introversion. The ENFJ gets energized being around people and prefers to talk out their thoughts instead of internalizing them. They are in tune with the feelings and emotions of their environment and seek to understand it.
The ISFJ prefers introversion to extraversion. The ISFJ is energized by their alone time and uses it to sort things out. The ISFJ wants things to make sense and will use the past as a predictor of future events.
Sensing and Intuition
A sensor and an intuitive will face some challenges in conversation. The Sensor lives in the concrete world of facts and senses, while the intuitive tends to wonder more about possibilities and what is not immediately recognizable. While these two types may struggle, they may also balance each other out by being able to get things done and also foresee future issues.
The ENFJ prefers intuition to sensing (Through Introverted Intuition). The ENFJ wants to understand the underlying meanings and connections between things. The ENFJ can form a gut feeling or intuition about the way things are going to play out.
The ISFJ prefers sensing to intuition (Using Introverted Sensing). The ISFJ takes in the world in a concrete/matter of fact manner. The ISFJ remembers facts, places, and uses past events to predict future outcomes.
Feeling and Feeling
Two feeling types can make for a very warm and inviting relationship. Both types are in tune with the feelings of others and can cater to their needs. However, they may have problems with becoming overwhelmed with finances or being more objective in certain situations.
The ENFJ prefers feeling to thinking (Using Extraverted Feeling). The ENFJ lives in the emotional and feeling world. The ENFJ is in touch with others emotions and knows how to respond to them to put others at ease.
The ISFJ prefers feeling to thinking (Using Extraverted Feeling). The ISFJ lives in the emotional and feeling world. The ISFJ is in touch with others emotions and knows how to respond to them to put others at ease.
Judging and Judging
Two judgers will want their worlds to be ordered and planned out. They would like to know what they are doing beforehand. These judgers will both appreciate each others structure and valuing being on time. However, they can both become stubborn and may clash with each other over which direction to take.
The ENFJ prefers judging to perceiving. The ENFJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The ENFJ wants to bring structure, order, and harmony to their environment.
The ISFJ prefers judging to perceiving. The ISFJ prefers structure, routine, and planning things out versus being spontaneous. The ISFJ wants to bring structure, order, and harmony to their environment.