The ESTJ Personality is all about creating order. The ESTJ wants to organize the people around them and create a strong hold on the community around them. They believe in tradition and doing the right thing, which is a standard that they hold to other people around them. The ESTJ can be a community organizer that is great at bringing people together. They are very verbal and well organized which allows them to make and talk through plans. They also have an entertaining silly side which allows them to break the ice and keep things light. The ESTJ believes in hard work and the rule of law, which they try to uphold and execute. The ESTJ is very principled and will usually find a way to implement their plans. They may come off a bit harsh and angry at others that do not hold themselves to the same values as the ESTJ. If they perceive someone as lazy or dishonest, they can adopt a very biting and sarcastic tone in their interactions. A more mature ESTJ may realize that not everything thinks or is capable of handling themselves in the same was as the ESTJ, and will find ways to allow others to play to their strengths, which will in turn produce better outcomes over time.
Enneagram Type 4 (4w3 4w5)
The Enneagram Type 4 is all about understanding the self. The Enneagram Type Four is always finding ways to discover more about themselves and understanding their emotions and reactions to the world they are exploring. They pay attention to how things make them feel, and they believe this helps them better get in touch with their true self. They are expressive and usually will find an outlet to put this to use. They can become a bit too absorbed in their feelings sometimes, which can make it difficult to put on a brave face or public persona to navigate life a bit quicker and easier. The Enneagram 4 typically has difficulty with being understood and may feel a bit like an outcast in their life. The 4 is not afraid to express the darker parts of themselves to others because they believe it is a vital part of the process of understanding who they are and their place in the world. They can typically seek out someone to rescue them. Someone that feels the 4 might need help in a world that can be a bit harsh toward them. The Enneagram 4 functions best in the world when they can let go of the past and live more in the moment. The Four will eventually find their identity and can live a very expressive life.