How Capable You Are of Merging Your Life with Someone, Based on Your Personality Type
For some people the idea of having to join their lives with someone else, becomes a bit overwhelming. They find themselves struggling each time they have to merge parts of their life, like moving in, joint accounts or really anything that takes away a piece of their independence. For others this is a simple process when they are sharing with someone they care for. Here is how you handle merging your life with someone else, based on your personality type.
INFJs might be independent people, but when they find someone they care deeply for the merging process is not that difficult. They actually enjoy finding someone they can connect with and feel a joint bond with. For the INFJ sharing their life with someone else is often a goal they deeply desire to meet. It might take them some time to really find someone they can trust and feel prepared to leave some of their independence for, but it is often something they want.
ENFJs are definitely comfortable joining their lives with someone they care for deeply. The healthy ENFJ often craves this process of growing closer and building a deeper bond with someone. For them it is important to be able to find someone they can share their lives with and connect with. They want to be able to feel close enough to begin merging their personal lives and finding ways to let go of some of their independence. While they do want to maintain parts of their previous life, that doesn’t mean they are afraid of moving forward and merging most things.
INFPs do seek to find someone they can really share their lives with, and so in some ways they are prepared to merge parts of themselves with someone else. When it comes to living together or possibly sharing joint accounts and any of those more practical processes, it really isn’t something the INFP is likely to feel uncomfortable with. When they meet someone they truly care for the INFP often wants to find ways to feel closer to them. They do however, want to maintain pieces of their independence, and dislike feeling as though they aren’t free to be themselves.
ENFPs do value being able to connect with someone, but at the same time they are very independent people. They can struggle to really merge certain parts of their life, since it can feel a bit like they are being smothered. Even the ENFP who is deeply in love and wants to spend their lives with one person, can struggle with the process. It isn’t because they are afraid of the commitment, so much as the fear of losing parts of themselves in this process.
While INTJs are capable of commitment, they do sometimes struggle with the process of merging their lives with someone else. For them independence is important and it can be a bit difficult to move forward with changing how things have been for them. Even though they might care for someone and want to share their lives with them, sometimes the merging process can be a bit jarring. They want to make this happen, but they also want to find the line between merging and maintaining their independence.
ENTJs believe in commitment and loyalty, and so they are often searching for someone to share their lives with. For the ENTJ being able to merge certain aspects is often simple, and something they are perfectly comfortable with. There are some things they want to maintain for themselves, so that they do still feel independent in some ways. For the ENTJ it is often about having control in their own personal lives and feeling like they aren’t losing that in the wrong ways.
While INTPs might have a hopeless romantic side, actually merging their lives with someone else can be a difficult process. They might struggle to feel prepared for losing parts of their independence and control in their own lives. For the INTP having to merge their lives with someone they love, can be a bit of a scary situation. Even if this is something they want it can still be unsettling and they might need time to really prepare themselves for it. INTPs are such independent people and so this can be the things that holds them back when it comes to sharing their life with someone else.
ENTPs are independent people, sometimes to a fault, and so they can struggle to really merge their lives with someone else. They need to feel like they are still free to make their own choices without losing part of their independence. ENTPs might care for someone deeply and really want to share their lives with them, but actually moving forward with this can be a bit jarring. They might fight the process a bit, fearing they might lose parts of who they are by merging with someone else.
ISTJs don’t mind merging their lives with the right person, and often feel comfortable with the process. ISTJs aren’t afraid of losing a bit of independence, as long as they are sharing their lives with someone special and loyal. They often want to find this type of commitment and partnership, and this is deeply important to them. ISTJs don’t become afraid of the commitment or the loss of independence, since they find ways to maintain their own space when they need it.
ESTJs aren’t afraid of merging their lives with someone else, and often take the process rather happily. When ESTJs find someone they actually want to share their lives with they enjoy being able to grow closer to them. They are not afraid of commitment, instead they are often searching for it. They want to find a partner in their lives, someone they can connect with and trust completely. When the ESTJ finds this person they will openly merge their lives with them without hesitation.
ISFJs actually enjoy being able to merge their lives with someone else, and even search out these types of connections. They want to find someone they can commit to and really connect with. ISFJs don’t like having separate lives from the person they are with, instead they want to be able join their lives together completely. While they need space and some level of time to themselves, that doesn’t mean they want distance emotionally.
ESFJs don’t often find themselves afraid of merging their lives when they have found the right person. They want someone who can take their relationship seriously and is ready to make this type of commitment. For ESFJs it is actually upsetting if the person they are with doesn’t find themselves capable of merging their lives and is hesitant about the process. They often feel happiest when the person they are with wants to grow closer to them. Commitment is truly important for the ESFJ, especially in their romantic relationships.
ISTPs can have trouble actually merging their lives with someone, only because they enjoy their independence. Feeling like they need to share every part of their lives can feel a bit unnerving for them. While they might want to feel close to someone and connect with them, actually merging their lives can be a bit stressful. ISTPs don’t want to feel smothered by their relationships, and for them this can happen somewhat easily.
ESTPs can sometimes feel nervous about merging their lives with someone, but often they need to feel like the other person isn’t forcing it. When they do make a deep connection with someone, sometimes the ESTP needs a little bit of a challenge to really feel entertained. In this case they will be more comfortable merging their lives, since they don’t want to feel smothered or forced, instead they want it to be of their own accord.
While ISFPs can be hopeless romantics deep down, they do sometimes struggle with merging their lives with someone else. They want to feel independence and freedom and so having to join too much with someone can be unnerving. They want to feel like they are free to make their own choices and live their own lives without having someone else smother them. They can sometimes have contradicting emotions about merging their lives, and so it can take time for them to find the right person to do this with.
ESFPs are highly independent people, and so sometimes merging their lives with someone else can be a little difficult for them. They need a lot of freedom in their lives and so it often takes time for them to feel more comfortable with the idea of sharing with someone else. ESFPs want to still feel free to be themselves and make their own choices without feeling controlled or trapped. They do want to make a deep connection with someone, but usually this happens after they have enjoyed plenty of freedom.
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